June 28, 2007

Just Shoot Me!

Filed under: Uncategorized — Bailey @ 10:21 pm

Yes, that’s right. I’m leaving tomorrow morning for a weekend shoot! It’s very exciting, but also makes me very nervous. I’m nervous for many reasons. My reasoning primarily looks something like this: “It’sgoingtohurtsobadomigod!!!!” I have a good reason to be panicked about all of this, too. I guess you guys know that, because if you’re reading this that means you’ve seen my videos. These guys do not fool around! Boy would my life be easier if I were a masochist!

There is another reason why I am nervous, though. I am meeting someone who is iconic in this industry for the first time this weekend. More than meeting him, I am going to be spanked by him. It’s Mr. M- the man who started the spanking video revolution. Some perceptive readers may have guessed that the reason we were speaking was in order to prepare for an upcoming shoot. So, if you figured that out, you are smart! Yay!

I’m also looking forward to seeing all the people I’ve gotten to know since I started modeling, as well as meeting some new girls! So, if I can get over my terrible fear of the extreme pain I am about to experience, it should be a very nice weekend. Except for the extreme pain. That’s still going to hurt. Yeah.

June 27, 2007

Stories

Filed under: Uncategorized — Bailey @ 4:15 pm

I don’t know how many of you hang out on Usenet, but there is a pretty cool spanking community over there. Right now they are engaged in an annual event known as the Short Story Contest. This has been going on for over a decade, and it is a massive undertaking for whoever is masochistic enough to agree to run it. This year that masochistic person is Mija, and I am full of awe at her willingness to take on this task.

Well, somehow I allowed myself to think it would be no big deal to help her out. So, I’m officially a reader/judge. This is exciting in many ways. After all, I’ve always loved spanking stories. Stories are what did it for me well before I ever saw a spanking video. Stories were the way I came to realize that I am not a total sicko and there are others just like me, who write stories about this stuff. Because of that I’ve always loved reading stories and I don’t think I’ll ever give that up!

However, I’m going through some major insecurities around this! First, I had to write a bio about myself. It took me ages to sit down and figure out what on earth I wanted to say! I hate talking about myself (really, I do), and never know how to give details without sounding stuck up and presumptuous! I also wanted it to be funny. I did finally complete that, though I’m still worried that it wasn’t very good.

Now, I’m supposed to write reviews of people’s stories! I understand how important this is because I am the queen of feedback. I get nervous just about the fact that very few people post comments to my blog. So, I can see why people who have entered into a short story contest would want to have feedback! However, I am horrible at giving useful feedback. When it comes to reviews usually the best I can manage is, “Hey, good story. Yeah.” So, I’m really pushing myself here. If any of you happen to be entered into the short story contest, and happen to be unfortunate enough to get me as a reviewer, feel free to tell me my reviews suck! I won’t tell you your story sucks. Probably. Yeah.

June 22, 2007

Kinky Conversation aka Mr. M Interrogates Bailey

Filed under: Uncategorized — Bailey @ 9:45 am

Hi Folks,

You’ll never guess who I’ve been chatting with! Oh Wait, it’s in the title isn’t it? I suppose I should come clean now and say that I wasn’t actually interrogated. However, he did have a lot of questions for me and how I view this kink we share. You see, I love to chat with like minded kinky folks from time to time. The reason I like to do this is because it can get lonely being kinky, and although I am surrounded by fellow kinky people, not everyone actually “gets” my kink. Spanking is so specific, it can be really hard to connect with someone who really understands where you are coming from. I am sure some of you have had this experience if you attend any kind of spanking parties: simply being in a room full of fellow spankos does not at all guarantee that anyone will understand what you specifically are into.

So, I finally got a chance to chat with the person who, in our little circle, is probably considered the local authority on all things spanking. Mr. M started the Real Spankings empire with his website www.realspankings.com and today there are several other sites affiliated directly and indirectly with the company he started, including this one! I was so excited to finally get a chance to talk with him because believe it or not I’d never met him!

Well, I can assure you that it was worthwhile conversation. As folks who have followed these things will know, Mr. M has a background in psychology. This came in very handy when we talked because he knew the right kinds of questions to ask in order to see if we were on the same page. I found myself talking about everything from my childhood to my views about corner time and punishments that are not focused on the bottom! It really was refreshing to chat with someone who clearly understood what he liked and seemed to really understand spankos of all sorts. I was also pleasantly surprised to discover that we actually have many preferences in common!

So, chatting with Mr. M was a rare treat. I certainly hope that I will have more opportunities to do so. I’d love to get to know him better!

June 20, 2007

New Blogs

Filed under: Uncategorized — Bailey @ 9:58 am

Hi Guys,

I wanted to tell you about a couple new blogs that are out there. I think new blogs are really cool, and I spend more of my time than is really appropriate reading them. However this time I have extra motivation because the creators of said blogs are my dear friends, and I think they have a lot of interesting thoughts. They also happen to be coming at this from a very unique perspective. So, here we go.

The first blog in question is called The Spanking Bench and is all about: spanking benches. Actually, spanking furniture altogether. I’ve never seen a blog on this subject, and I think it’s really cool. Cody also has a lot of interesting tidbits about spanking in general, his own experiences, etc. I highly recommend checking it out!

The next blog I’m really enjoying right now is Life of a Switch. I am not a switch, so I think it is really cool to hear about a different dynamic. Nisha is so smart and articulate, it’s a joy to see what she has to say. I have to admit I have a bit of vanity in mind when posting this, because she happened to post a very nice little photo of me along with some complimentary comments!

Both of these folks have a lot of awesome thoughts to share and are coming into the blogging community with a fresh approach. I think it’s worth your time to check them out!

June 9, 2007

Sometimes I’d Rather Take the Spanking

Filed under: Uncategorized — Bailey @ 8:42 pm

We bought ice cream bars last night. A whole box full of them. We each had a bar, and then went on our way. Well, I happened to be using the computer at the moment that I finished my bar, so I wrapped the stick up in the wrapper and set it down on the ground to pick up the next time I got up. Unfortunately, I forgot to pick it back up and it was still sitting on the living room floor this morning when my boyfriend came out.

He asked if I left the wrapper out and I said, “Oh yeah, I forgot to throw that away last night. I’ll go do it now.” “No ice cream for you today.” he said as I took it to the trash can. “Why not?” I asked. His answer was to roll his eyes at me dramatically. In addition to not being allowed to have ice cream, I’ve been subjected to watching my boyfriend eat it twice today. I am one big ball on envy.

Frankly, I’d rather take a spanking. I’m a big fan of taking care of problems immediately. If I had been spanked then right now I could happily be eating my ice cream instead of whining to you all about it! Plus, what better way to cool off from a hot bottom than a nice yummy ice cream bar? I wonder if we could come to an agreement…

June 8, 2007

Site Content

Filed under: Uncategorized — Bailey @ 8:34 pm

Hi Guys,

A member of this site wrote to me the other day to talk about what he’d like to see on my site. I did a “what would you like to see” post early on, but haven’t revisited it. So, I thought I’d show you guys what he had to say (with his permission) and get some feedback. So, without further ado, I give you one member’s analysis:

“I looked at some of your old videos and downloaded a bunch of the new ones. (From your site.) All of them have the same theme; Bailey is a dumb incompetent girl that can’t do anything right unless her ass is black and blue. Besides that I’m not a big fan of all the suffering and crying.

What I would like to see, for instance, is you and another girl wanting a spanking and conspiring to get it. Instead of being on a bed talking about what a bitch Ms Burns is you could be talking about how long it has been since your last spanking and how much you want another. Then when your getting it you are told to count and you don’t. When asked if you are going to count you say something like ‘Oh, excuse me, did you start? I didn’t feel anything.’ I could go on but I think you get the idea.”

Do you folks think this is accurate? I think it’s a fine line because many people like to see primarily punishment scenarios. I think I have done some scenes that deviate from the “Bailey messed up and is punished” mold, but they definitely are not the norm. What about the crying? I know Jeoffry certainly enjoys it. I’d like to say that I’m prepared to show stoicism if the members demand it but I don’t want to make any false promises. The reason for this is simple: I’m a wimp. I’d like for that to change but I’m not holding my breath.

So, anything else? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

June 1, 2007

Off To The Wild…

Filed under: Uncategorized — Bailey @ 11:10 pm

Well everyone, I’m going camping this weekend! I’m not much of a camper (I’ve only been once in my life), but I’m really looking forward to this trip. Why, you ask? Since you’re asking, I’ll tell you. It’s because the only other time I went camping it resulted in a “nice” spanking from my boyfriend while bent over a rock! I’m sure it doesn’t take a lot of guesswork to realize that I’m hoping for a repeat performance.

There are, however, drawbacks to spanking in nature. Though I have not done much in the way of camping, I have had a few outdoor spanking experiences. From this I have compiled a list:

1. Noise travels - Every spanking I’ve ever received outdoors has been significantly louder than indoor ones. If you happen to truly be in the wilderness this is not a problem. If you happen to be at a popular campground, you may not have as much privacy as you think. Unexpected audiences are a definite possibility.

2. There are creepy crawlies - Depending on your location you can face everything from mosquitoes trying to devour your nice red backside to ants and other insects crawling over your hands while otk. I find it very hard to get lost in any kind of headspace when I’m worried about swatting away the next bug.

3. You are exposed to the elements - I have extremely fair skin. Although I enjoy the warm hot feeling I get from a good spanking, I do not really get into sunburns on my backside. Consequently this limits locations and/or the amount of time you can play. I suppose I *could* put sunscreen on, but who remembers that when they are about to get their bottom smacked?

4. Nature provides the worst implements- I hate switches. Hate. Hate. HATE them. Did I mention I don’t like switches? Getting spanked in nature is not always worth the risk of your helpful spanker remembering that trees make handy implements.

5. It hurts more- I’ve found that no matter how pleasant the weather is, camping in the mountains is still chilly when your jeans are down. In case you don’t know, spanking hurts more on a cold bottom. A lot more. This is why it is very important that the spanker remember that he must only use his hand and never, ever any implements. If he must use an implement, it needs to be something that will not cause shock to a cold bottom. My suggestion is a feather. Switches are to be avoided at all costs.

If you have anything to add to the list by all means do so! In the interim I’m going to work on convincing my boyfriend I’ve been just naughty enough to get a good girl spanking on our campout!

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