Frequently Asked Questions
We are still waiting on Visa approval, and hopefully that will resolve itself soon. I can’t wait for everything to be open for membership! However I figured I would write something else while we are waiting that might hold your attention. So, what would you like to hear about? I thought since so many people write to me asking me all the same questions, I would put together a list. However, most of these can also be found on my punishment profile which is over at www.realspankings.com So, here we go:
Q: Were you spanked as a child?
A: No, not even once.
Q: Have you always had an interest in spanking?
A: Yes, I can remember my spanking interest as some of my earliest memories.
Q: What is your favorite position? …
A: I’ve always enjoyed the over the knee position best. I find it to be so much more intimate and caring.
Q: Do you prefer to be spanked by men or women?
A: I usually prefer to be spanked by men because most of my fantasies involve men. However there are some exceptions,and if the dynamic is right in the moment I enjoy being spanked by women.
Q: Do you ever give the spankings?
A: Basically, no. With my close female friends occassionally I will, but it’s just for fun. I do not spank men, and have no interest in being a “real” Top.
These are the big ones that I get asked all the time. However if you guys have more questions for me I am happy to post more questions and answers in the future. In the mean time, you might want to read the interview that Adele Haze did with me, which is located here: http://adelehaze.com/2006/06/02/pillow-talk-interview-with-bailey-real-spankings/#more-107
Since I started meeting other adult spankers in 1960 I have noticed a large percentage hardly ever were spanked as kids, even back when that was very common. My wife’s extended family was against spanking. I was not spanked as a kid, but our mom did spank my kid sister a few times.
When I was growing up in the 1930’s and 1940’s, spanking scenes were common in feature movies. I found those scenes the best part of the films. My wife is younger, so by the time she could attend movies in 1974 spanking even as a joke was rare. She read romance novels as a kid.
She loves to be spanked, and OTK best of all. That works out because I love to spank OTK. She adores leather implements, especially a short leather strap and mini-martinet.
Comment by Don Davis — October 15, 2007 @ 8:09 pm