April 30, 2008


Filed under: Uncategorized — Bailey @ 9:33 am

I am always conflicted about whether I prefer to know how many strokes I am going to receive during a punishment or not. On the one hand, knowing you are going to get a very severe ten stroke paddling does allow you a little bit of room to “hold out” until the end as it were. I’m not sure I would feel the same way knowing I was going to get a very severe 100 strokes hairbrushing, though.

My boyfriend used to take a different approach. He never told me how many strokes I was going to get,but he always had me count out loud. In a way that was horrible because if we got to 11, I knew it would be at least 20, if 21 at least 30, etc. He hasn’t done this in a while though. I think he decided that my counting was helping me get through it.

There is also the question of whether a spanking should be short and swift, or drawn out with a slower buildup. This depends in large part on what you are aiming to achieve I suppose.


  1. On occasion I would love to see you count the smacks, But only when you get an over the knee hand spanking. I hate seeing you get swatted with something very hard and the spanker makes you count the whacks or say “Sir” or “Mam”. Sometime maybe you take a birthday spanking and the spanker would make you count off each year as he spanks you. For instance you count off “one” for the first year and you get spanked once. Then you count out “two” and get two smacks for no. 2. Then count out numer “three” and then get three spanks for no. three. then go all of the way like this till you reach your normal birthday date. I would love to see you try this at least one time to celebrate your birthday. I would like to see you get a slower spanking. You are so very beautiful and it is so much fun to watch you take those spankings. You are the best spankee ever. Love you, Norman

    Comment by nnjjkk — April 30, 2008 @ 4:57 pm

  2. Norman has an intruguing idea but I wonder if he’s done the math. The number of swats for 18 (to pick the first birthday for adult consensual spanking) is 171. (There’s an easy math trick to do that for any even number. Add 1 + [the number] and multiply by half the number. So, 1 + 18 = 19 and 19 x 9 = 171.) So, for 19 it’d be 190, for 20 210, for 21 231, and so on.

    So, just saying, it better not be a very hard spanking, and you’d better have some time to devote to it.

    But still, intriguing idea.

    Comment by Michael — April 30, 2008 @ 10:18 pm

  3. Spankings for role-play, school paddling or canning scenes, should definitely have a predetermined number of strokes.

    Punishment spankings, even though I have never given one for real, should be undetermined, and go on until the spanker feels that the spankee has been brought to the correct place.

    Comment by jeoffry43 — May 1, 2008 @ 6:33 am

  4. I agree with jeoffry43. I have only given 1 punishment spanking, but agree it should be undetermined and continue until the spanker feels it is enough. But i feel it should start hard, not work up to it, if it starts hard and swift, it’s likely to be shorter. I always felt a punishment that starts slow and works up is being “enjoyed” by the spanker, and a punishment shouldnt be “enjoyed” by either. A fantasy spanking however can start slow, because thats all it is really, a fantasy, as long as no one is really hurt.

    Comment by willb — May 1, 2008 @ 10:45 pm

  5. >This depends in large part on what you are aiming to achieve I suppose.

    The aim, is to acheieve a very sore bottom and a very sorry, well spanked girl.

    I tend to favor the random method, so the spankee never knows what to expect next. Concentrate on the sit spot with enough variation to keep them guessing.

    Comment by cyberdad — May 2, 2008 @ 10:36 am

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